Reading a book and watching a play to not fall under wasting time. You get a lot out of that. Movies and TV ?? Meh, not so much. Kinda get programed too.
We all spend too much time on the internet. Every single one of us.
I can spend a weekend on the couch watching TV with my lap top there too. Giant waste of time, indulgent.
But the days where I get off my ass and go out in the garage and work on my GTO, build something or even do the yard work I have been putting off I feel so much better. And actually have a good time once I start doing it.
I don't play video games for a reason, I would get hooked on them and spend all this time on a skill that means nothing, takes from you and gives nothing back.
I have seen these losers who play video games so much they hurt theit backs and shoulders and miss work !
Things like golf, you do spend a lot of time and a skill that does not mean anything. But, walking for 10 holes out in nature is good for you.
I do watch every single Rams play. Its now in my DNA. Pretty much given up on MLB and the rigged NBA. Only so many hours in the day.
Hobbies are hobbies, but you
do know that you can actually get paid for doing video games, that you can play on teams, much like sports? My eleven-year-old nephew plays a lot of first-person shooter (FPS, for your clarification; I know you don't like acronyms) games (FortNite, mostly; his dad - my younger brother - won't buy him Call of Duty/Battlefront for obvious reasons), and he's absurdly talented at them; he's in a group that not even his dad is good enough to join, and he was a very talented FPS player himself in his heyday. It's a skill that might mean nothing to you, but my nephew does it because he
enjoys it, and sometimes, that's all you need. Is that really a waste of time? Would you really call an eleven-year-old a loser for doing something that he finds fun?
Me? I write fiction for both monetary purposes (although nothing is going to me; every cent of every original story I write is going to a different charity) and fun, but I also write fanfiction (basically, stories based off of books, TV shows, movies, video games, etc.) online as well, which can't be sold, which is only available because every person who writes it does it for fun. Is writing fanfiction a waste of time as well?
If someone's having fun with something positive, it's not a waste of time. Fate knows there's plenty of misery out in the world, so why should people not focus on something they find enjoyable? It may not seem that way to you, but if they're having fun in a hobby that's not hurting them or anyone else, why should anyone judge?