I only have one and it's for my wife.. I've been married for 36 years, so I feel pretty safe about it...My son on the other had a large tat with his wife's name...I kind of wondered about the possible problem with that...Now that he is recently divorced, my concern has come to fruition... It makes new relationships a bit dicey at first..This is my 2nd marriage and I learned after about an hour NEVER to utter my 1st wife's name, even if I was degrading, cussing out, or even threatening to put a contract out on her... Nice job, son...OUCH !!!!!! At least his other large tats are his nieces and nephews (all on my side) and the RAMS !!!!